Offences will come, the
longer you live the more things are going to offend you it is impossible to
hide from it, anywhere you go you will run into offence,You will get
disappointed, insulted, betrayed, hurt, rejected, people you’ve been there for won’t be there for you and these things affect us emotionally and threaten our sanity, we push people away, our self esteem goes from 100 to 0. When that happens pray you are resilient to the disappointments of their betrayal.
At times we get pushed to the core that we think of retaliating but what good comes out of it (nothing) and just because you don't retaliate( in other words revenge) doesn't mean you are weak NO, it just means you are wise (they will learn from you eventually).
As soon as you get offended shake it off, don’t let anything corrode you build in you or become toxic in you, whatever or whoever did it is not worth it. Let me make this logical, you cannot be able to breath in air(inhale) and not exhale, you can’t eat food and not eliminate it, so you have to be able to take in offence and shake it off. If your heart takes too much offence after offence after offence it will begin to damage your attitude and sometimes we collect too much offence that we use all our energy to manage our pain, and all that energy that could be going towards the abundant life and progressive life is being used to maintain the pain.
As soon as you get offended shake it off, don’t let anything corrode you build in you or become toxic in you, whatever or whoever did it is not worth it. Let me make this logical, you cannot be able to breath in air(inhale) and not exhale, you can’t eat food and not eliminate it, so you have to be able to take in offence and shake it off. If your heart takes too much offence after offence after offence it will begin to damage your attitude and sometimes we collect too much offence that we use all our energy to manage our pain, and all that energy that could be going towards the abundant life and progressive life is being used to maintain the pain.
The
bible says you need to forgive 70 times 7 but you see Jesus isn’t
after the answer to the number, He is trying to let us know we need to be perpetually
forgiving. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you agree with them, or they were right, or
the hurt and pain isn’t there, it means you have too much in front of you to
allow the things behind you to leave you incarcerated or bound, or even block
your blessings. Don’t even wait for them to ask for forgiveness no, you are
giving them too much power, cut yourself loose, forgive and let it go, this is
something you are doing for you and not them. Just like my friend said days
back “don’t let the world scar the beauty inside you”. Don’t let petty behavior take you out of
your character, keep being you, give whole heartedly, be compassionate, ignore foolery and don't lose focus.
And also make sure you try to exempt yourself from bringing ''Offences" to people because one of the best things you can do for you is having a clear conscience and being at peace with yourself. Maya Angelou said "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel" we all have feelings make sure you are doing unto others what you will have them do unto you. If you are waiting for someone to act right before you act right, you are going to wait for the rest of your life, it starts with YOU.
And also make sure you try to exempt yourself from bringing ''Offences" to people because one of the best things you can do for you is having a clear conscience and being at peace with yourself. Maya Angelou said "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel" we all have feelings make sure you are doing unto others what you will have them do unto you. If you are waiting for someone to act right before you act right, you are going to wait for the rest of your life, it starts with YOU.
Don't let the world scar the beauty in you. If you avoid offence you avoid life, it will come over and over and over again, you need to have the ability to handle offence when it's brought to you cause it will determine the way your life will go.
Know what to ignore, not every battle needs to be fought (Exodus 14:14).
Know what to ignore, not every battle needs to be fought (Exodus 14:14).
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