TSF SPEAKS || BE SMART ENOUGH TO LET THEM GO

 T.D Jakes Inspired
When people can walk away from you, let them walk, because your destiny is not tied to the person who left. People leave you because they are not joined to you. Don’t try to talk them into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about or staying attached to you. No matter how you are attracted or attached to them or whatever the situation might be, if they can leave your life, let them walk. You have to know when people’s part in your story is over, so you don’t keep trying to raise what is dead. If they walked away is no accident, if they left you it’s no accident. If you tried to make it work and it wouldn’t work, it’s no accident, accept it as the will of God.
Whatever God meant for you to have, he will give it to you and if it takes too much stress/sweat you don’t need it. Stop begging people to stay, let them go if they are willing to go. Sometimes it’s good for people to forsake you, so you can discover yourself. You have to be strong for yourself and focus.The most important thing for you to remember is that you are God’s special creation. He loves you very much and he wants the best for you. If God allowed them to walk away from you, then their part in your life is definitely over, do not look back and get ready to embrace what he has in store for you. Heal and move on, God’s got better for you and he’s got you.
          Luke 6;21 …. Blessed are you who weep now, for you will laugh.
Let that resonate within you and don’t dwell on the situation, It might be a friend who walked out of your life, a family member or a partner, but I tell you this, family and friends will forsake you but your heavenly father will not forsake you.

FINAL WORD!
God draws people away from you so you can discover yourself. /
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  1. Truly real advice. People leave all the time. And if people aren't leaving, are you really growing?

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  2. So well said! Great post x

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  4. Beautiful outfit:) great shoes:)
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  6. I'm always sad when a dear friendships slowly or abruptly dissolves, but I feel the same: if someone choses to leave the best is to accept it.

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    1. So true dear, if they choose to leave the best is to accept and move on. Thanks for stopping by dear.

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  7. Amen sister! I couldn't agree more with your sentiment. God is in charge and He knows what is best for you. Thanks for the reminder!

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  8. really such good advice! thanks for sharing!

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  9. Thanks for sharing beautiful lady! Your dress is so cute...I really love it!

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  10. Such a great advice!
    You look fab in the firs pic!
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  12. Nice post. By the way, the look looks good on you :)

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  13. This is just what I needed these past couple of weeks after my relationship ended and I felt betrayed. Your words and that beautiful verse are healing :)

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  14. great post, thank you for sharing. The blue dress is very beautiful and suitable for you

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  15. Sometimes it really is time to let go. And we do tend to work more on ourselves when we do.

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  19. Great pictures and thanks for the advice, it really makes sense and sounds like the right thing to do!
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  20. Great outfit. I like the color too! :)

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  21. I've had to let go of so many people that I used to greatly care about, but I have no regrets because their presence in my life started doing me more bad than good, and once you feel that way it is time to let them go. Those who are meant to be with you will stay and there will be no need to make an effort to make them stay. They will stay because that's where they belong, wish the best to those who leave and wave them goodbye so that you can thrive and grow. It may hurt at first because you do care, but as time passes you will feel that you made the right choice. This post is what I agree with. :)


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    1. Exactly dear, once their presence in your life starts doing more bad than good then it's time to let go no matter the history you have together. It definitely will hurt but time heals, I so agree with this comment and I must say this is the bet comment. I'm glad it speaks to you and you understand it. Thanks for stopping by dear.

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  22. very wise words girl! I completely agree with everything you said.

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  23. You are indeed right, we should not force our self to people who doesn't even care when we are gone and also we are totally worthy.

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  24. This is such a nice piece of advice! You look great <3 Wonderful post dear <3
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  26. I agree with you about let people go who are not meant to be in our life. You look fantastic in this dress.

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  29. This is truly wonderful advice. And so true. You don't need someone in your life who doesn't wish to be in it for all the right reasons :) http://www.bauchlefashion.com/2018/08/youre-invited-to-tropical-palms-summer.html

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  30. I love T.D.Jakes. I have listened to this sermon before and it really moved me.

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  32. That dress is amazing on you dear! Such a pretty color.

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  33. Love this amazing article, if they leave you, they weren't destined to be in your life. It might be hard letting go but once you find out they are detrimental to your health, or you are losing yourself . Then it's time to let them go. Thanks for sharing dear.

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  35. Great tip! Sometimes it's better to let things go :)

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  36. It can be hard to let go but sometimes we need to!

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  38. I completely agree with your advice! You look so gorgeous! Wish you beautiful weekend!

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  40. This is well said you hit the nail on the head bernie!!
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  41. This is so well said! "God draws people away from you so you can discover yourself." are such important words to live by!


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  42. Im weeping reading this , this post really give me comfort and strength to me , somehow this feeling that i cant let go of someone drives me nut all the day. But I realize to keep and stay strong and make myself better and left them behind and never look back anymore. Thank you so much for this post :)

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    1. I'm sorry I made you weep, but I believe it's for the good. It may be hard but once they are doing more harm than good then it's time to let go. My pleasure dear and be safe.

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  43. This is such a useful life lesson. It can be difficult to overcome but it happens to all of us in some point during our life.

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  44. well said dear!!

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  45. This is such great advice! I've seen so many people stay in toxic relationships because they think they can change the other person, but if it did not work the few first times, let them go!
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  46. Great post. We should always let people go...There is no way we can hold onto someone who doesn't want to stay and we need to be wise enough to realize that.

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