Hello Lovelies, how are we all doing? Hope well. So today’s blog post is definitely going to be an interesting one, which you can tell by the title. During these past weeks I reached out to few of my friends to write down what they really think about me, sort of a review thingy. Y’all I’ve laughed, smiled, cried small, said to myself ‘really’ and laughed again. I appreciate everyone that took out time to do this for me, and trust me I’ve picked out a few things to take note of; I think I’d definitely do a part two (2) on this.
Anonymous 1
First
of all, you should know that she’s Pisces, so that definitely says a lot about
her. Benita can be loud especially when she is gisting (fun gist). She laughs a
lot, can take an insult but, can give an even harder/painful insult. She’s kind
if you are kind to her, she doesn’t like selfish or self invested people, and
Benita believes in do unto others what you’d want to be done unto you. She is
hardworking especially when she is passionate about it (in conclusion, read
about the female Pisces and you’d basically know more about her).
She
has a serious face on the outside, so you probably might feel intimidated
approaching her, but trust me when you finally get to know her, you’d be glad
you did. She is really photogenic and is
a totally different person behind the camera.
She is friendly when she wants to , she can be helpful when needed but,
she can sometimes be annoying in the sense that when she’s angry at or with
someone, she sometimes unknowingly transfer her anger wrongly, but in all she
is a nice person, oh yeah also, when she is angry keep shut!.
Anonymous 2
So
personally I feel Benita is cool, but somewhat reserved, I respect that and I
appreciate it, I like her sense of dressing and composure, I can gladly tell my
sister, friend or daughter, look at that lady, emulate her and you won’t regret
it. Essays like this we tend to talk about the good side, yo! I don’t even know
if she has a bad side, if you do I’d spank it out, Lmao.
Benita
is very observant, I am too but not to random peeps, it’s to people I am
interested in or a general environmental scanning. So the talks we had
yesterday was cool, wow you are awesome shaa and you can keep convos. Maybe I
am writing too much, let me stop here.
Anonymous 3
Benita
is a sweet lovely lady, who has a positive attitude to work. She is kind,
diligent and hardworking, she could also be pretty blunt, but she has a great
personality, and is understanding. You can always count on her, she is mature
and has a positive outlook to life.
Anonymous 4
To Benita
my good friend, knowing her and being her friend is the best someone supposed to
have, I have leant a lot during the course of our friendship. She is a fast
learner, a humble lady, she has got the qualities of a leader, she is very
intelligent and smart like her madam (boss). She is creative (thinks outside the
box) and honest.
Anonymous 5
She
is a woman with a kind heart, though you might not know if you are not
carefully calm with her. She is someone that doesn't follow the crowd or hop around for friends. She loves her
esteem and will not want anybody to bring it down, but she's someone you can
confide in, share your problems with and is ready to reason with you. She is a
problem solver, intelligent, hardworking, ambitious, and friendly and an
understanding person. She doesn't look down on people rather she makes you feel
better than whom you think you are. Words can't fully express her well but with
the little I know, she is a blessing to this generation.
Anonymous 6
She is ambitious, always looking forward to being the boss lady and exhibit those characters quite well.
Anonymous 7
Beni
Beni, a hardworking lady, simple in her ways, not always harsh, always smiling.
She does her things diligently and does not like mistakes. Benita impacts
knowledge to people, though I haven’t known her for too long but the little
time I have know her for good. She’s perfect in her own ways , to say the
least, Benita is a wonderful lady.
And Finally Best Friend
A good and God fearing Friendship is a
great blessing, a divine and most precious gift in anybody’s life. Getting a
true friend is rare and counted as a big achievement in life. A person gets
acquainted with different people during their life journey. Among these, we
find a few who think in our wavelength with similar taste and nature. We become
more attached to these type of people and spend more time with them.
Psychologists recommend that people
should co-exist together so that they can help each other during times of need.
There is also a fact that coping mechanisms to stress are better off when
friends are involved.
I am indeed lucky to have my university
friend Benita James as my best friend, like a twin sister, and a strong
motivator even now. I still remember the day I met her. It fell on my birth
month 8/11/2013on a Saturday. It sounds to be a cock and bull story, but I
earned the best friend of my life when I was far away from home.
She possesses qualities that just make
me love her. She is prayerful, kind to everyone, and love babies just like me. She
is intelligent both academically and in issues concerning life. Her sense
of fashion is impeccable. She always steals the attention of everyone when we
walk together, which makes me invisible. We have very imaginative minds, sometimes
we just sit and plan our future and it is just amazing how she jokes about
everything.
We played together, studied together, laughed
together, stayed up late, sometimes cried together, hustle together, we did
grow up together, made incredible memories together and finally when she
graduated, we bid goodbye and parted our ways.
Though miles apart, we either call or send
messages on a daily basis. Wherever we go, we are connected by heart and manage
to have video calls despite how expensive data is in Nigeria she still calls,
we chat about the events in our lives so far, cherish our mischievous moments
together, reminisce our good old days, capture every single moment in
photographs and separate again.
Life continues its incredible journey, so many intimate friends moved in and out of my life, but none replaced the sole position reserved for my girl, now a strong woman, who stood by my side during the high and low times of my little life. I do believe that she is one of the best things that ever happened to me in University and I am so thankful to God for her. I hope she never forget how blessed we are to have each other. I, Okere Jennifer. I will always love you and appreciate our friendship for the rest of my life.
So that's all for todays post, hope you learnt something new about me?
Talk to you in my next post, be you, be safe, be kind, stay blessed and remain humble.
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