10 RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME

Hello Lovelies! How are we all doing? Been a minute, is it just me or is the year stating off slow, like we are still in the middle of January, I like it that way for some reason though. 2018 please slow down and take your time. Anyway, today on the site I’ve decided to share 10 random facts about me. For the past days on Instagram it has been going viral by my fellow bloggers where they share random facts about them and tag other bloggers to do so. As for me I’ve decided to make mine into a blog post. I hope you find it interesting. For more facts about me click HERE.
Talk to you in my next post, be you, be safe, be kind, stay blessed and remain humble.
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WHAT I’M WEARING
Choker Neck Cold Shoulder T-shirt (HERE) Long Boot With High Heel (HERE) High Waist Tiered Fringed Suede Skirt (HERE)

10 RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME
          1.       My full name is Benita James, I’m from the western part of Africa, and a lot of people tell me I don’t look western but more of eastern. Well, it’s something I can’t argue with them.
        2.      I don’t really like small talks it makes me cringe. I would rather we have deep conversations. 
        3.      You won’t know this by looking at me but I really like playing, goofing around and laughing. Boy, do I love laughing. My YouTube history is always about funny videos. Fail Army is my holy grail.  
        4.      I prefer having male friends to female friends; the drama having female friends is just too much for my fragile self, I’m too thin for too much drama.
      5.      I don’t like the beach, I’d rather sit on the sand or hang around for fun but never go into the water, I have a phobia for water.

6.      Don’t let this skinny body fool you I can eat for Africa.
           7.      I like the smell of clean fresh dough from the bank or ATM; it just makes me feel like I can do anything with money.
      8.      I'm very productive at night. Not a morning person.
         9.      I hated medicine so much when I was a child that one time when I fell ill I was prescribed some drugs, whenever my mum gives me the drugs I pretend to take it in and when she leaves I quickly remove them from my mouth and tuck them under the sofa until I was caught. Dad asked if I didn’t want to feel better, I told him I prefer injection to medicine….😎
       10.  I just feel I was born to travel the world but damn, traveling expenses and the process is just the devil and also feel I was born to be an international model.
Bonus
I’m the kind of person that is quick to cut someone off who affects my emotional/mental health.  It doesn’t matter the history we have together, because once my emotional state is affected I don’t function well, I break out, I lose weight, I feel sick and weak. So I’m really quick to cut someone who does affect that part of my life because it’s not worth it and I don’t play with my health.
In Cardi B’s voice and I’m quick to cut a Ni**a off.
I hope you enjoyed reading.
QOTD  ‘Don't let your peace be controlled by the selfishness and carelessness of others, we are all learning from one another however that does not mean we have to be a subject to anyone's nonsense,  we are allowed to decline, block and distance ourselves from anything that no longer serves us’
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  2. Very cool look! Loving the fringe and choker neckline.

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  3. These are good facts. Thanks for sharing.
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  4. THanks for telling us some random facts about yourself. I felt I know you a letter bet better.

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  5. довольно экстравагантно ))

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  6. I'd like to know something that you didn't tell, how you get in Russia ...
    xoxo

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    1. haha, it's really a long story Marisa but I came here for my Uni education. Thanks for stopping by.

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  7. Wow! You look so pretty!!!Have a successful day dear!

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  8. Lovely post :) I hate small talk too x

    Laura
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  9. this post is so cool!

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  10. Love this outfit - you rock it! I'm totally with you girl, I love funny Youtube videos too and small talk is the bane of my existence also. Love having deep conversations with people. Thanks for sharing!
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    1. That's cool, we can relate. Thanks for stopping by dear.

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  11. What a cool outfit! Those sunglasses are a show stealer! And love the fringed skirt too!
    Happy Friday!
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  12. great getting to know you better bernie and love the outfit
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  13. I love "random facts about me" posts, they are so fun! I posted one of those myself just recently! I am with you 100% on facts 2,4 and 8! Also, love this look! :)
    Magda

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  14. you are slaying it! Love your sunglasses and the fringe skirt!

    - Marina

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  15. Loved reading this and finding out some new facts about you. I especially love the bonus one because I can relate hard to that. I even thought of Cardi Bs line before I even read the quote you added in there haha

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  16. Interesting post my dear, are you Aries by any chance? You look so trendy in this styling, I love your top :-)

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    1. Oh dear, no I'm not. I'm Pisces. Thanks for stopping by.

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  17. I am in serious love with your sunglasses ♥ By the way, it would be fun to see your DNA test. I just ordered my DNA kit for fun. As I don't look like from country where I am from :D

    Have a nice day~

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    1. Thank you dear. Yeah, I've always wanted to get a DNA test and I'd definitely do it and maybe share it on the site. Thanks for stopping by.

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  18. Great post, facts about you and great look xx

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  19. You look amazing, that skirt is fab!! I love personal posts like this one, I might do one too!!

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    1. Thank you dear, do one if you can so we can get to know you more.

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  20. What a cute outfit; I love that skirt! Also, it was so fun getting to know your through this post. I have a phobia of water too, I’ve had a few near death experiences in water, lol, so that explains it. Thanks for sharing and I hope you have a great weekend!

    Xo,

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    1. Yeah my fear of water is just having near death experinece, gosh! I can't. Thanks for stopping by dear.

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  21. Loved learning more about you Benita! Like you I dislike small talks! Long and deep conversations are so much meaningful as well! And you look lovely here, babe!
    Have a wonderful weekend, love!
    xoxo, Vanessa
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    1. It's cool we can relate. Thanks for stopping by dear and do enjoy the rest of our week.

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  22. I really like these sorts of posts, it's good to learn more! Beautiful pictures too!
    Have a lovely weekend :)
    Rosanna x
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  23. beautiful blog! I really like how you write
    and what you give photos. wonderful!
    I have a question, you will agree to follow for follow?
    I like to be in touch with inspirational blogs.
    Greetings from Poland!
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  24. Love your outfit!:)

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  25. Love theses pictures
    And I enjoy reading theses 10 randoms facts about you.
    I also think girls are sometimes too much drama haha' !
    xx,
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    1. Haha, well that's so true dear. Thanks for stopping by.

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  26. Lovely facts about you Princess!
    Cool look, as usual!
    Kisses, Paola.

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  27. Love random posts like this, it was nice getting to know you more and you look so stylish in that outfit.

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  28. I prefer deep conversations instead of small talks too!

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    1. That's cool dear, glad we can relate and thanks for stopping by.

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  29. Nice post.
    I follow you,follow me back?😃


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  30. Beautiful photos :) I used to be a beach person but lately I can't stand it. rather go hiking

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    1. Really, hiking sounds scary though. Thanks for stopping by.

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  31. Totally in love with the fringe skirt!
    xx

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  32. Very chic and edgy as always, I love you top :)

    xx Alyssa | STYLE VANITY

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  33. Nice to get to know you more. Thanks for sharing and yes love your outfit as always. xoxo Cris
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  35. What a fun read. You had me cracked up when you said you talked about your appetite. That's pretty impressive. I have a friend who's exactly like that. She eats a lot, and can't get fat. Really impressive genetics. ha!

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  36. Oh dear I am just the opposite of you! :)
    Nice outfit......
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  37. Amazing post darling 😄 I followed your blog, i hope you will do the same 😄
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  38. I love how you style this fringe skirt!

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  39. Loved getting to know more about you! I could eat for days too :)

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  40. Amazing post, dear! You look so beautiful!
    A big hello from Germany!
    Hugs ♥
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  41. Lovely post and your fringed belt rocks! I am also too thin for drama, hehe =) Kisses

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  42. 1, 3 and 4 (but people think I look like someone who comes from Jamaica. Lol but, I love it!) are the things we have in common. I so agree with you number 10. Lol!! I've started cutting people who affect me emotionally too. I'm just not cut out for no wahala. Ha!!
    You look great!

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    1. Yeah when I first stumbled on your blog, you didn't strike me as a ghanaian though. Guess we should all get DNA test to know where we are truly from.
      Thank for stopping by dear.

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  45. Great skirt and boots:) I love this look:)
    kisses

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  46. Nice post! I follow you, follow me back plz <3
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  47. OMG next stunning outfit:) I like your skirt Dear:*

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  48. those sunglases are amazing and original! love them

    kisses dear
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  49. Thanks a lot :D

    amazing combo as usual :D
    nice to meet you better <3

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  50. I like your styling dear, those boots are beautiful.

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  52. We're pretty similar! I don't like small talk, I prefer male friends, I don't like the ocean, ha ha! Love your outfit too!

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    1. Guess we are really similar, thanks for stopping by.

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  53. Girl, you should be on top model and I love these funny facts about you!

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    1. Girl, you know that's right. Thanks for stopping by.

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  54. I love your style so much! You look amazing in those boots :) http://www.bauchlefashion.com/2018/01/5-ways-to-decode-your-valentines-day.html

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  55. Oh, I just knew that you're phobia to water! I don't have that kind of phobia but I am also afraid of water :(
    One more thing, I also prefer deep conversation rather than small talk ! *highfive
    Anyway, I love your outfit, especially that statement sunnies, so avant garde!

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    1. Really! Glad we relate on the small talk ish. Thanks for stopping by.

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  56. Beautiful as always!
    bisous

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  57. Really enjoyed these facts about you. I'm also not a morning person, I can sleep until forever.
    Stunning outfit!

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  58. Your sunnies look so hip and chic here girl!! Adore them on you.

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  59. I'm not big on small talk either. Love your skirt by the way!

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  60. great pictures, love the background!

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  61. What a cool skirt!!
    I also prefer having male to female :)

    akiko
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  63. These are great facts! I didnt even know there is a distinct look between eastern and western Africans. Thanks for sharing

    Lesley-Kim

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