Isn’t it unreal how
time flies, I remember this day exactly one year ago, I hit publish on my very
first post. I was excited at the same time nervous. I was thinking to myself who
is going to read, view or even comment. Fast forward to now that was nothing to
worry about. I’m really blessed by my audience, those who just stop by, those
who share my post, does who comment and those who give me ideas and try to
improve my content by sending messages. I appreciate you all really. I remember
it took me 30mins to figure out a blog name, I had more than 15 listed on a
paper unsure of which one to go for until I wrote the very last one, sent it to
my sister to give her input on it and to cut the long story short. After some
doubts and some encouragements The Style Fanatic was launched on this very day.
I may not have a lot of followers but the few I have are really active and I
love you all for that.
There are day’s when I get frustrated but your comments keeps me motivated and can be uplifting. So a big thanks to everyone.
There are day’s when I get frustrated but your comments keeps me motivated and can be uplifting. So a big thanks to everyone.
WHAT I’M WEARING
One Shoulder Vertical Striped Frill Trim Top (HERE) Criss cross sandals (HERE) Flannelette Ball Adorn Stud Earrings (HERE)
One Shoulder Vertical Striped Frill Trim Top (HERE) Criss cross sandals (HERE) Flannelette Ball Adorn Stud Earrings (HERE)
When I started
blogging I was trying to get ideas from other bloggers which didn’t help at all
because when I looked back at the content I had created it didn’t scream
originality to me. I saw it as another bloggers work, which made me a little
dissatisfied. Anyways, after a month I wanted to be proud of my work and
started creating original content all from my head and I can say I’m indeed
proud of my work, that I am my own fan. At night I look back at what I’ve
created check my blog religiously to see what needs improvement, adjustment and
all other things related to blogging. I’m grateful really in this short period
I’ve worked with a lot of brands and still working with a few at the moment
I’ve
learnt great things from blogging.
Perseverance is
definitely key, keep doing what you know how to do best regardless of who is
watching, criticism doesn’t affect you unless you let it in, I’ve grown as well
as a person, my confidence is an A+ and so is my negotiating skills. Also strangers
are more likely to support you than friends, so be cautious of the friends you
keep 'cos not everyone will be genuinely happy for you. Also, do not sweat the
small stuff, progression is better than perfection.
To
my audience
First of all I want to say a big thank
you for all your support in all the different ways shown and I appreciate
everyone even the anonymous. Also, all bloggers are not meant to dress the same
way or provide the same content. That’s why there’s diversity in blogging, my
niche is different from the other bloggers’ niche, so on behalf of my fellow
bloggers I say to you all, respect our work and please don’t compare us to the
next blogger. So we employ you to sit back, support us and enjoy what we
provide because blogging isn’t easy at all neither is it a joke. Respect to my
fellow bloggers. I’m here to inspire and motivate you through my blog.
Advice
to my fellow bloggers
Be true to yourself,
be real, unique and let your passion shine through your work and you’d be
satisfied with you work regardless, don’t compare yourself to others ‘cos at
some point trust me the pressure might get to you but know this, nobody knows
how to do what you know how to do best so use your creativity well and don’t
let social media kill it. Don’t accept every opportunity that comes your way
because majority of the time most brands are trying to use us get what they
need. So think twice before accepting any opportunity. Focus on your blog,
better it for yourself and for your readers. For my style and Fashion bloggers
you don’t need to break the bank to look good, recycle, try DIY’s, thrift if
possible at the end of the day it’s how you wear it with confidence that
matters. Don’t follow all the trends as they come and go. They say Quality over
quantity when blogging but sweetheart in order to work with brands you need
balance of both, so work on both and excel in what you do. The blogosphere is
fun, so don’t put yourself in one box, expand your horizons, try new things
that works for you not because everyone is doing it. Don’t be scared to be
different, different is good. Success doesn’t come over night you need to work
for it. It’s okay to look up to other successful bloggers but never put them above
you and neglect yourself. Advertise your blog on all social Medias to reach out
to more people. Do you stand out as a blogger? ask yourself what differentiates
you from other bloggers as there are many bloggers out there. Anyways blogging
isn’t easy just be you, create nice content, don’t plagiarize someone else’s
work, don’t blog because you want to make money otherwise you’d be very
disappointed as this thing take time. Be consistent, engage with your audience,
pray, and then slay. Above all work hard, don’t forget why you started and stay
humble.
What
I hope to achieve this year
By God’s grace honestly, it’s to just create better content and improve the blog for my readers, work
with more brands, collaborate with other bloggers and feature more people on my
blog. So holla, don’t be shy and we’d talk. You never know what good will come
out of it.
Increase my TSF Speaks which I’ve been neglecting.
Finally
a big thank you
To my sister for
always taking my blog pictures when I started in the blistering cold, scorching
sun and sometimes giving me style ideas. Also to others who’ve taken my blog
pictures God bless you all. To my fellow bloggers who turned friends and to my
amazing audience you all are just real and may God bless you all.
QOTD "Forgive anyone who has caused you pain or harm.''
Photos: Herroyal Annie
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