OFF SHOULDER MAXI DRESS + 5 PRACTICAL THINGS TO DO WHEN YOU EXPERIENCE REJECTION

Welcome back to the blog Lovelies! And to my new audience I see you all, welcome and please stick around.  Hope we are all doing well? I’m wearing this gorgeous maxi dress from Zaful, beautiful in it? It’s even more beautiful on me than what it shows on the pictures, sometimes pictures don’t portray what it’s meant to portray. For this dress here, I decided to pair it with my sandals to make it a complete summer outfit.
The dress is light, very comfortable and flattering on the skin. Outfit details are down below be sure to check it out.
Talk to you in my next post. Be you, be safe, be kind, stay blessed and remain humble.
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Off Shoulder Floral Asymmetric Maxi Dress (ZAFUL) Sweet Weaving and Rhinestones Design Sandals (DRESSLILYRhinestone Tassel Water Drop Earrings (ZAFULLink Chain Tassel Chunky Cuff Bracelet (ZAFUL) Rhinestone choker (SHEIN)
 Read this some months ago and I’ve decided to share with anyone who might need it.
All in the words of Bishop T.D Jakes . Being favored doesn’t mean that you will not be rejected. It is a costly experience that causes emotional pain that can lead to anger or self-esteem issues. Even though you have experienced rejection, it doesn’t determine your future. Don’t let anger or rage harbor in your heart (psalm 4:4) Release yourself from the pain of rejection so that you can soar into the place where God is leading you. Recall that Joseph was rejected by the ones that should have embraced him. Don’t take rejection personally. The rejection honestly says nothing about you as a person. Getting rejected is a part of life and it’s not a personal attack it’s all a part of the process when you are blessed and highly favored.
Here are some practical things you can do when you experience rejection;
1.      Reframe the rejection. It’s not about you.
2.      Don’t allow the rejection to control your future. Move forward.
3.      Use the rejection to improve your life. See the brighter side of things.
4.      Forgive- Release yourself from the pain and into happiness.
5.      Extend Love- Love never fails(1 Corinthians 13:8
Rejection is a jump start to your blessings.
QOTD "Those that don't increase you will definitely decrease you.'' 
PhotosFidelis Saleh 
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  1. I love your outfit and the tips. I think rejection is not necessarily a bad thing. I see it as a beginning of something new and better.

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  2. I totally agree with your words. Rejections are part of life. Go with it. You look gorgeous here in the post.
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  3. Amazing outfit, I love your dress, xx

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  4. This looks is pure romance and summer atmosphere

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  5. This dress is absolutely beautiful! I love the overall design with the OTS neckline and the high-low style! Thanks for sharing, beauty, and I hope you're having a great week so far!

    XO,

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  7. i love that dress bernie !! can i steal it lol!!! you look lovely!!!!
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  8. You look lovely dear + nice write up
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  9. What a super stunning dress! Love this look so much! =)

    - Cielo
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  10. This dress is seriously stunning on you!

    Nathalie
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  11. Love your dress so much! So stunning!


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  12. great tips babe! and you look amazing!

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  13. Stunning photos! & it’s great that the items actually looks like what it’s supposed to! I can’t remember how many times I’ve gotten things that look nothing like their online photos D: The dress looks gorgeous on you!

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    1. Yes dear exactly. Buying things online and not recognizing it, is just torture. Thanks for your comment and thanks for stopping by.

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  14. Thanks a lot :D

    the dress is absolutelly adorable my dear. Fits perfect on you :D

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  15. I always love woth off shoulder dress and yours is very pretty. I love the floral printed there and how you combine it with red earings. That's perfect, Bernie!

    loves,
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  16. I'm in love with this lovely dress **

    Federica
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  17. The dress đź‘— looks really beautiful on you... i need to check their site...

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  18. perfect!
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  19. I am obsessed with off shoulder clothes and this dress is so beautiful!! Love the floral print! x

    Yiota
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  20. Hi Benita, this dress is one of my most favorite to date. You look gorgeous and I love your hair.
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  21. Looking adorable is the floral dress.
    We don´t need what moves away! xx
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  22. You look absolutely stunning my dear. Gorgeous dress.

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  23. Your dress is amazing!! Love the off the shoulder trend!! Xx Susanne - http://bagatyou.com

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  24. Your photos are so dreamy! Love love that dress <3

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  25. Such a pretty dress! Love the photos!
    ~Samantha
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  26. That dress suit you,how cutee you look!

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  28. This dress looks absolutely beautiful on you, and you are right about rejection.

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  29. I agree to all your tips, whenever things doesn't go my way I move on. I'll be honest, it stings sometimes but I always tell myself Paulo Coelho's words "If it's not gonna matter in 5 months, don't be upset for more than 5 minutes" :) Anyway, very lovely look. That dress is pretty :)

    xx Alyssa // STYLE VANITY

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    1. Yes dear, spot on. Love the quote, I have something like that pasted on my wall. Thanks for your comment and thanks for stopping by.

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  30. wow such a pretty dress
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  31. Dying over that dress!
    Btw, great tips!
    Kisses, Paola.
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  32. Very cute look! Kisses.

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  33. Love this dress and the message! I agree criticism is not personal! You have such a great heart! LOVE!
    Happy Wednesday, babe!
    xoxo, Vanessa
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  34. I like off shoulder dresses too!
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  35. your photos are amazing! The maxi dress is beautiful! I totally agree, you can't let rejection effect your future. LAURA ­| Laura Thinks About

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  36. You look so beautiful :) Your dress is fantastic :)

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  37. Oh very cute dress darling
    Cute style
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  38. This off shoulder dress looks perfect on you, the slit though! I love how you styled it with hand fan and sandals <3


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  39. Very nice dress and very nice suggestions. You look fantastic!
    Nistha
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  40. Thanks a lot :D

    your chocker is amazing :D Love it

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  41. What an amazing dress!! Love it!
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    MĂłnica Sors
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  42. Love this, would be really nice for the beach.

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  43. Que monada de vestido, tiene una tela y un movimiento preciosos.

    Está feo que lo diga yo, pero es que este post mola mucho
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  44. You look so gorgeous! That dress suits you best!

    xx, Cinthy Kwok

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  46. Such a beautiful and romantic look! I love it darling! You look fabulous!

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  47. I love the choker and off the shoulder dress combo! The colour and light texture makes this dress so perfect for summer
    Dora
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  48. This maxi dress is so gorgeous! Great tips for how to deal with rejection too which is definitely not easy.

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  49. you look so stunning in this maxi dress. So romatic look

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  50. You look gorgeous dear.

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  51. Oh girl I am so in love with that dress, you look amaziiiing <3
    xx, Carmen - http://www.carmitive.com

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