TSF SPEAKS || DON'T LET THE WORLD SCAR THE BEAUTY IN YOU

Offences will come, the longer you live the more things are going to offend you it is impossible to hide from it, anywhere you go you will run into offence,You will get disappointed, insulted, betrayed, hurt, rejected, people you’ve been there for won’t be there for you and these things affect us emotionally and threaten our sanity, we push people away, our self esteem goes from 100 to 0. When that happens pray you are resilient to the disappointments of their betrayal.
   At times we get pushed to the core that we think of retaliating but what good comes out of it (nothing) and just because you don't retaliate( in other words revenge) doesn't mean you are weak NO, it just means you are wise (they will learn from you eventually).
As soon as you get offended shake it off, don’t let anything corrode you build in you or become toxic in you, whatever or whoever did it is not worth it.  Let me make this logical, you cannot be able to breath in air(inhale) and not exhale, you can’t eat food and not eliminate it, so you have to be able to take in offence and shake it off. If your heart takes too much offence after offence after offence it will begin to damage your attitude and sometimes we collect too much offence that we use all our energy to manage our pain, and all that energy that could be going towards the abundant life and progressive life is being used to maintain the pain.
   The bible says you need to forgive 70 times 7 but you see Jesus isn’t after the answer to the number, He is trying to let us know we need to be perpetually forgiving. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you agree with them, or they were right, or the hurt and pain isn’t there, it means you have too much in front of you to allow the things behind you to leave you incarcerated or bound, or even block your blessings. Don’t even wait for them to ask for forgiveness no, you are giving them too much power, cut yourself loose, forgive and let it go, this is something you are doing for you and not them. Just like my friend said days back “don’t let the world scar the beauty inside you”. Don’t let petty behavior take you out of your character, keep being you, give whole heartedly, be compassionate, ignore foolery and don't lose focus.
    And also make sure you try to exempt yourself from bringing ''Offences" to people because one of the best things you can do for you is having a clear conscience and being at peace with yourself. Maya Angelou said "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel" we all have feelings make sure you are doing unto others what you will have them do unto you. If you are waiting for someone to act right before you act right, you are going to wait for the rest of your life, it starts with YOU.
Don't let the world scar the beauty in you. If you avoid offence you avoid life, it will come over and over and over again, you need to have the ability to handle offence when it's brought to you cause it will determine the way your life will go.
Know what to ignore, not every battle needs to be fought (Exodus 14:14).

Thanks for reading and have an amazing weekend.
Bernie
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64 comments

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  2. It's actually worth reading. Thanks for the enlightenment, now I know not every petty thing deserve my attention. I don't know you but God bless you.

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    1. Yeah, it is worth reading. Thanks, God bless you too.

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  4. Exactly!

    First You look so cute and thank you for your input))))))))))

    Emotions are result of our choices. The key is learning how to "mode shift"...
    Ignoring is not always possible and knowing what to do next if it does work is vital as well.
    Forgive. It is an amazing tool to give you power in any situation.

    And has been said, living well is the best revenge. This for me is knowing that I have done my best to communicate and keep healthy boundaries. Always a learning process.)))))

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    1. Thanks Dear. You are right ignoring sometimes is not always possible but it's effective. Still learning myself.

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  5. I'm definitely coming back here to read this amazing post again and again for motivation, cause trust me people do get on your nerves from time to time. It's not that easy to just ignore. Thanks for the words of wisdom Dear. By the way you are a gorgeous young lady.

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    1. Thank you, I'm glad it helped motivate you. And I don't mind you coming back:)

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  6. Love this post, such a vise word..You are beautiful inside as much as outside xox


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  10. Ah! You look sooo cute! I love your style! <3

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  11. Nice post! Thank u for the words and great outfit ;)
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  13. Thanks for reminding of of the fact that beauty is both outwards and inwards.. true beauty being the latter. Thank you for being true to who you are.. and that is being truly beautiful.
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  15. Thank you so much for this post, it meant a lot to me to read this !

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  17. Thank you for the lovely words of wisdom. Its important to stay strong and let nothing or no one bring you down!

    Love,

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    1. Yes Dear It's really important.
      xo.

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  19. Nice Piece dear thanks for sharing
    God bless you so much!
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    Respect!!!

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    1. Thank you Yomi :)
      Amen and you too.

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  25. thanks for sharing this post, i kind of needed this wake up call right now what with im going through with work. i'll try your advise. thank dear!

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  26. Wonderful post and writing dear!
    It is exactly what I needed to read at this time that I have been facing these issues in my work...
    Thank you so much, and have a great week!
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    1. Thank you stella, everything will be fine work related. hHave an amazing week. xoxo.

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  27. Great outfit & great post. Not caring about what others think of me was one of the best things I ever learnt in my entire life. You’ll never be happy if you’re trying to please every, right? Thanks for a great read.

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  30. What an amazing read, one can tell you really took out time writing this article. Thanks so much for sharing and God bless you. kisses.

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  31. Inspiring words. Lovely outfit.

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